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Author Archives: Paul Cockayne
Counselling in Wokingham – Stalagmites and Avatars
Some years ago I remember working with a couple who both, at different times, had had affairs. The woman seemed ready to forgive and move one, whereas the man did not. His blockage was that he had put his partner … Continue reading
Posted in Relationships
Tagged change, couple, depression, needs, partner, relationship, trust, understanding
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Counselling in Wokingham – The Meaning of Life
Paul Cockayne – 07791 970406 – paulcockayne3@gmail.com Welcome to my counselling blog. You can find more information about me by clicking one of the links at the top of this page Often I don’t think of a title for my … Continue reading
Posted in Understanding
Tagged belief, choice, emotions, feelings, meaning, objectives, thoughts, truth, understanding
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Counselling in Wokingham – Fake News
Paul Cockayne – 07791 970406 – paulcockayne3@gmail.com Welcome to my counselling blog. You can find more information about me by clicking one of the links at the top of this page The phrase “Fake News” is much in use at … Continue reading
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Tagged communication, context, emotions, feelings, interpretation, memory, understanding
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Counselling in Wokingham – Are you selfish enough?
Paul Cockayne – 07791 970406 – paulcockayne3@gmail.com Welcome to my counselling blog. You can find more information about me by clicking one of the links at the top of this page The word “selfish” has a bad press – how … Continue reading
Posted in Making changes
Tagged behaviour, change, needs, relationship, selfish, smoking
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Counselling in Wokingham – Alternative Facts
Paul Cockayne – 07791 970406 – paulcockayne3@gmail.com Welcome to my counselling blog. You can find more information about me by clicking one of the links at the top of this page The White House spokesperson this week presented what she … Continue reading
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Tagged arguments, communication, control, emotions, facts, feelings, partner, power, truth
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Counselling in Wokingham – The Spider’s Web
Paul Cockayne – 07791 970406 – paulcockayne3@gmail.com Welcome to my counselling blog. You can find more information about me by clicking one of the links at the top of this page Some people come to counselling with enthusiasm, eager to … Continue reading
Posted in About Counselling
Tagged behaviour, beliefs, change, connections, emotions, feelings, thoughts, understanding
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Counselling in Wokingham – Who are you?
Paul Cockayne – 07791 970406 – paulcockayne3@gmail.com Welcome to my counselling blog. You can find more information about me by clicking one of the links at the top of this page What is it that makes you who you are? … Continue reading
Posted in Making changes
Tagged behaviour, change, choice, Future, identity, past, thoughts, understanding
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